strengthen your child's self-esteem. Help your child
recognize and nurture his or her unique talents. Children in this age group
often experience a wide range of emotions that can change very quickly
depending on what is happening around them. Try to show your child how to see
the big picture. Talk about all the successes he or she has had, such as doing
well on a test, learning new spelling words, or making an impressive art
ages between 6 and 10 are a confusing and exciting time for children. They make
new friends frequently.
Most children in this age group are
beginning to understand and be sensitive to the feelings of others-a trait
known as empathy. But they are still self-centered. Their feelings are easily
hurt. Likewise, they can casually hurt others' feelings. You can help your
child learn how to be more empathetic and to understand the importance of
healthy friendships. Talk about and list the qualities that make a good friend.
Talk about how your child can work on developing these qualities.
Bullying may start to become a problem
for some children near age 10 years. Take an active role in preventing and
educating your child about ways to deal with this type of behavior.
Equip your child with ways to deal with
and avoid being bullied.
- If your child engages in bullying
address the problem right away. Talk about how his or
her words and actions affect other people. You play an important role in making
your child aware of others' feelings.
- Involve parents and other
adults who are around where the problems occur. For example, talk to staff and
teachers at your child's school in situations that include classmates.
For more information about bullying, see the topic