Although your child between the ages of 6 and 10 may seem very independent at times, he or she still needs your constant guidance. Being present is the most important thing you can do to help your child grow in healthy ways. Knowing that you are "around" and available provides him or her with a sense of security. Although your child's world is expanding, you remain his or her primary influence.

You can do many things to help your child grow and develop.

• Promote physical development by encouraging and modeling healthy eating habits. Also, foster a healthy body image by talking about and showing how it is important to accept people of all colors, shapes, and sizes.
• Promote cognitive development-thinking and reasoning skills- by being involved in your child's school. Volunteer if possible, cultivate good relationships with teachers and other staff members, and show your interest in what your child is learning. Also, work on skills at home, such as simple math problems, money handling, reading, and writing. Age-appropriate workbooks are widely available, even at many grocery stores. But be careful not to pressure your child. Simply spending time with him or her is an important part of setting a foundation for cognitive growth.
• Promote language development by reading to your child every day. Make reading a routine, even as he or she gets older and seems to lose interest. Set aside time that you and your child can look forward to and talk about stories, words, and ideas. Visit your local library and try finding books with new subjects that you think might interest your child. Although computer games are not a replacement for reading, some games can also benefit your child's language development.
• Promote social and emotional development by being aware of sibling rivalry, which can become a problem around this age. Also help your child to learn social skills, such as by showing your acceptance of others and not gossiping or saying mean things about other people.
• Promote sensory and motor skill development by encouraging physical exercise every day. It doesn't have to be highly structured: the main point is to move around. Practicing somersaults, playing catch, going to the park, or riding a bike are all helpful in developing muscular skill and endurance. Also, encourage your child to create art projects, such as drawing, cutting with safety scissors, gluing, and stringing beads. These and similar activities help improve eye-hand coordination and fine motor skills.

Also, you can help your child in other general ways.

• Deal with common fears. Understand that your child may become extremely interested in scary subjects or images as a way to overcome them. Help your child as much as you can by answering questions and providing reassurance as needed.
• Establish limits. Setting limits for your children shows them that you love and care about them. Make sure your rules are reasonable and that your children understand them. It is important to follow through on any consequences you have established for failing to follow rules.
• Recognize and develop special talents. Help your child to discover interests and practice skills. For example, kick a soccer ball around the yard with your child or help him or her practice printing letters.
• Recognize his or her curiosity about the body and sexuality. You can help your child gain a basic understanding and healthy attitude towards these issues by showing a willingness to listen and discuss them.